You can't choose who knocks you up.

But you can choose who you marry.

in this article* written by heather clouse she decides to dissect the inner workings of young military marriages. To which i maturely reply YOU DON'T KNOW ME!

Is it just me or do we only live once? If you fall in love and have the urge to marry that person, don't you think you should? Sure sure I fully understand that marriage isn't just playing house but its also blah blah blah grown up stuff. cool-beans, right? Isn't all that grown up stuff a learning process? isn't learning much fun when you have a partner? I think it is.

Also, Don't you think an article written about MILITARY MARRIAGES would be better comprehended by someone who is maybe, MILITARY or MARRIED?

I do agree, Marriage is a lot more than love. But its also a lot of love. its a lot of growth, its a lot of struggles and its a lot of learning to deal with someone else's bullshit. if you are willing to go through that with someone, go for it. life is too short to wonder "what if."

Don't be afraid to love. If its not meant to be, thats OK! divorce isn't a death sentence.


*Also, If you decide to be a journalist, Please learn what spell check is. You're embarrassing yourself.